Saturday 30 November 2013

Lachido Free Online Dating Great Date Ideas

Lachido Free Online Dating Fun Places To Take Your Date

Finding a place to go on your date can be challenging.
Sure, the first date is easy- you go to dinner or a coffee because you can have good conversation and get to know each other.
Once the ice is broken its time to have some fun.  Here is my list of top fun places to take you date.

Bowling

Especially glow bowling, it can be a fun, relaxing way to get to know each other.
You aren’t in each others’ faces constantly as one person has to be on the approach to bowl, but you have enough time in between turns to continue to chit chat.
Plus, it allows for friendly bets such as Most Strikes, Highest Score and Most Splits to be made.

Zoo/Aquarium

An aquarium or zoo can be a fun way to share any knowledge you may have about animals and sea life.
Plus, most of these places will stage shows throughout the day, providing you with a much needed break from interaction.

Arcade 

Step back into your childhood for a few hours, and have fun playing your favorite games!
This is a great opportunity to showoff, if you have serious dance skills or are a pinball wizard.
You can also find arcades that serve alcohol, which is good to help you loosen up a little.

Dog Park

Do you and your date both have dogs? What better way to get to know each other than by taking them to a dog park together?
This makes the date more about socializing your dogs, and not as stressful as dinner and a movie would be.
You can share tips as pet owners, without feeling the forced interaction a date usually brings.

Be a Tourist 

You might know your city like the back of you hand, who cares!  
That does not mean you can’t have fun acting like a tourist.
Grab your date and a camera or two and head to some local landmarks.
Snap away, and make goofy faces! It’s a low stress way to get to know each other, and you can take one of the guided tours to learn more about your city.

Subway Date 

Want to try something totally different?
Buy a day pass, hop on the subway and then hop off at random stops with a goal in mind.
Goal ideas could be to find a mom and pop bakery or coffee shop, locate a street vendor for a quick lunch, or find a used bookstore and buy a book.
Time limits could make this activity even more fun!

Laser tag

Surprisingly, it’s actually a good setup for a first date.
You have the 20 minutes or so of game time, followed by another 20+ of waiting, which can be used to get to know each other.
It’s sporty, fun and hey, who doesn’t want to run with a bunch of 15 year olds and act like a kid yourself once in a while?

These are out of the box ideas that will surely make a fun date.  Get away from the norms and branch out. Your date will thank you for it. It allows you to be vulnerable and get loose. This is a great way to build on connect and chemistry. Have fun!

Sunday 17 November 2013

Lachido Avoiding a rubbish Online Dating profile

Lachido Free Online Dating avoiding a rubbish Online Dating profile

Anyone who has been a member of an online dating site has seen one.
And then they’ve showed their friends who aren’t on the dating site, who cringe and ask them why they bother.

I’m talking about that awful online dating profile that is so bad, its hilarious.

There’s a certain skill when it comes to writing an Online Dating Profile, and its much like a Work Resume.
You cant consider it the same, but its very similar in that you are marketing yourself to someone that you want to be with.
And think of it this way, look how many jobs you apply to and don’t get a response from until you tweak your resume for that perfect job?
You just need to market your profile to the perfect person!

Here’s a list of things that will leave you sad and lonely on the internet if you include them in your profile:


  • Profiles that are all in CAPITAL LETTERS OR with egregious spellin erirs and/or missing words sentences. 

If you, as a fully grown adult are unable to properly formulate a sentence (especially given spellcheck and technology nowadays) then I don’t know what to tell you.
Except, this is why you are single.

  • Opening your profile bio with a dirty joke or a dick comment. 

Majority of people don’t want to hear a dick or fart joke when they get introduced to someone, so why should online dating be any different?


  • Always put up a profile picture, and make sure its less then 4 years old. 

You realize anything older than that is just setting yourself up for failure, right? Most laptops and desktops come with webcam capabilities,
so even if its a crappy cam pic, its still a RECENT photo, which is what people want. Otherwise they’ll wonder what else you’ve lied about.
Speaking of pics, avoid references to any ‘dick pics’ until you’ve at least chatted with the person for a bit.
You may be turning away a great match just because you are desperate to show off the goods!


  • Talk about treating someone like a princess. You WILL end up with one, and it wont be pretty.
  • Talk about how you are just looking for a ‘friend’ and to see where things go.  You are on a dating site, not a friend finding site.
  • Talk about being fresh out of a relationship. 

If you don’t care that the only responses you’ll get are from clingy types who want to help you ‘move on’, then by all means, add this tidbit in!

  • Any username that has anything to do with sex. If you want nothing but one night stands and booty calls, then this is fine. Ish. 

As long as you let them come to you, otherwise you’ll come across as a creeper.

  • Complaints about yourself or others. Nobody wants to hang with or date a Debbie Downer. Its fine to be unhappy with certain features (nobody’s prefect), but your dating profile page is not the place to be airing them out.
  • Social Media. Do you want a bunch of random creepers adding you on Facebook and then having to explain to Mum who they are?
  • Unanswered questions. If you cant be bothered to fill in most of the questions on your profile, don’t be surprised when we cant be bothered to look longer than a minute and move on.

The biggest thing of all? Don’t lie. The person WILL eventually find out, and then you’ll be screwed. Just be nice and upfront and honest!
And you know what, if all else fails, ask a friend to help you write yours! They know the best and worst of your personality, so they should be able to
help you put together a great one!