When it comes to dating, we all have types that make us go boy crazy. Some of us like dating men in uniform, bartenders, suits or construction however most of us have fallen hard for a sexy foreigner.
I can’t think of anything sexier than a cute accent. You can never get enough. Although dating a foreigner who is visiting your country or vice versa may seem appealing, there are some factors that are also not as attractive as their beautiful accents.
If you’re thinking of dating a foreigner, here are some pro and con dating tips you should consider beforehand:
PRO: He Hasn’t Been With Your Friends Before.
You can pretty much guarantee your foreign hottie hasn’t slept with one of your friends or vice versa. Which is nice, especially if you live in the same city you grew up in, where everyone seems to know everyone. So meeting someone who isn’t a mutual friend on Facebook, let alone someone hasn’t slept with at least one of your friends is refreshing to say at the very least.
Con: Expiration Dating
Unless your foreign lover has a VISA, it should be understood that this relationship would be a fleeting one. When you dating someone and know there’s an expiration date to your romance off the bat, it’s very difficult of having anything long-term and meaningful develop. So unless you’re looking for an affair to remember, don’t get too attached.
Pro: They Can Help You Fall Back In Love With Your City
When you’ve been living in the same city for a while, you can get pretty bored and ignore the beauty and culture that surrounds you. But when you’re taking a sexy tourist around town to check out the sights and attractions, you get to rediscover your home base through their awe-struck and beautiful eyes.
Con: They Can Distract You
Since the point of traveling is to experience new things, their goals are being met. But yours may be falling by the wayside. So although it’s fun to eat foreign home made cooking and make love until dawn every night, don’t let your new lover distract you from your everyday responsibilities and long-term accomplishments.
Pro: Don’t Have To Worry About Awkward Bump-ins After The Breakup
We all know that the most difficult thing about breaking up is running into your ex after you call it quits. However, if your ex lives on the other side of the world, you don’t have to worry about bumping into them other than on your newsfeed for your social media networks.
Con: Won’t Be Able To Get Back Together
When it’s over, it’s really over. Life is not a Lifetime TV movie after all. So if you hit a bump along the way on your new relationship, then you can kiss your lover goodbye. After all, once he/she boards that plane back home, there’s really no point in talking things out or seeking couple’s therapy. It’s over. No break up sex and no closure.
Pro/con: Zero Background Info
It’s hard to get a reference check on someone from another part of the world. So their past is a mystery — but then again, so is yours!
If you’re going to date while visiting or on your travels remember these tips as a guide to help you make the right decisions. Remember, this type of dating should be fun and enjoyed by both people. So, keep it simple and have lots of fun and lots of sex.
